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Debbie M.'s avatar

Such an important topic to be discussed. As a RN I learned from personal experience many years ago something about this very dilemma. My dear friend, 50 yrs old at the time, was diagnosed with a GBM. Being a nurse herself, she asked that I be her eyes and ears and do the research. It was a 19 month marathon, that's for sure. In the end, she was not well advised by her medical team when the treatments stopped working. You see, she was 50 and so they continued to do everything possible to keep her alive. I've never been so disillusioned in the medical profession. I kept saying to them, she is dying, let her go. Only one physician listened to me, the family practice doc. He finally stopped the treatments and she died a few weeks later.

What it taught me was that the dying can teach us how to live. When the time came and my parents were diagnosed at the ripe ages of 89 and 85 with CA, they turned to me as what course to take. They were both very healthy and lived independently. Chemo or palliative care? It was an easy decision. Spend the time you have left, reasonably well, surrounded by loved ones, in your own home. I've never looked back.

Thanks for your article.

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Martin Derrow MD FACP's avatar

On point, thank you Dr. Chakraborty. As a general internist over the years, I had many occasions to question the wisdom of aggressive therapeutic interventions unlikely to benefit patients near the end of life, not just cancer but heart disease, neurodegenerative disorders along with frailty and advanced age. These are tough decisions, maybe the toughest for patients, but we often fail to help our patients adequately weigh the pros and cons just as you explain. It's common, as we all know.

An extreme example. I had a 98 year old gentleman present with a nearly completely obstructing advanced aggressive unresectable cancer of the distal rectum and anal canal. I met with the patient and his wife, recommended a diverting colostomy followed by palliative care, a plan of care shared by his gastroenterologist who had made the diagnosis. The colorectal surgeon to whom he was referred disagreed and referred the patient to a radiation oncologist who recommended a course of radiation therapy. While in the hospital, on day two of his XRT, his colon perforated, he became septic and died.

I had a cardiologist colleague who once when we were discussing a chronically ill mutual patient who had died following a high risk intervention, a decision that in retrospect he questioned, commented, "we killed him so he wouldn't die." We are all, patients, loved ones, physicians, subject to heuristics that bias our better judgement.

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