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Sheila's avatar

From a psychiatrist’s viewpoint:

Transference happens in every relationship. In psychotherapy it is used therapeutically to promote change.

So, what is it? It is a series of assumptions about the other person based on prior experience with others, particularly the experiences with one’s parents or other authority figures.

There are negative transferences which generally means the patient doesn’t stick around for the full course of treatment.

If you let a patient know much about your conditions or worse, you confess to certain facts about your personal life, it may unburden you but it will burden them. They will make adjustments to what they tell you based on their experience with that other person(s) and what they now think they know about you.

The “House of God” rule # 4 applies here: “The patient is the one with the disease.”

They will find your feet of clay, anyway, without you showing your feet.

Positive transferences include trust, and if the majority of the patient’s experiences were with trustworthy authoritarian figures, then that trust will automatically be transferred to you. If those figures didn’t lie a lot, then they’ll generally believe you are telling the truth. They’ll even forgive you a lie or a misrepresentation if your other behavior is trustworthy.

If you introduce more reality than they can glean from your office, your clothes and your car, it can cause more difficulties.

They will automatically adjust their behavior to suit whatever it is that they believe about you.

If you want to assure a pt. about the efficacy of, say, an antidepressant, it’s better to say, “Studies have shown. . . “ or “Several patients of mine have reacted well to . . . “ than to say, “This antidepressant really works! It helped my depression!”

Also, no matter how well that antidepressant worked for you, other people can respond differently with different side effect profiles.

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Jim Ryser's avatar

I voted undecided on both. I am an old school patient AND therapist - and I go by one rule and one rule only when it comes to self-disclosure.

If self disclosure truly helps a patient, self disclose. If it’s helping YOU, then keep your mouth shut, take care of your patient, and go see your therapist.

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